At our Autism Flies event on April 29 at Rhode Island T.F. Green International Airport (PVD), we were reminded once again that autism is a lifelong identity—and the need for access, inclusion, and opportunity doesn’t stop at childhood.
So often, discussions and supports around autism center on children. While early accommodations are important, autistic adults are often overlooked—even though they make up the majority of the community. Their needs, goals, and experiences deserve just as much visibility and respect.
That’s why we were so moved to welcome Stan Dale, a 65-year-old autistic man, to our event. He hasn’t flown in over 40 years and attended the practice boarding experience with his sister, Bonnie Dale. Together, they walked through every step of the airport journey—from checking in at the ticket counter to boarding the aircraft and even sharing a snack on the plane.
Stan embraced the experience with warmth and curiosity. He smiled as he met the pilot in the cockpit, and his joy was unmistakable as he deplaned at the end of the event. On his way out, he picked up a swag bag—one last touch in a day full of thoughtful details.
Afterward, Bonnie shared, “Stan and I both had a blast!” Watching him reconnect with air travel underscored a powerful truth: the need for thoughtful, sensory-aware environments doesn’t end in adolescence.
Our Autism Flies events are designed to reduce anxiety and build confidence in a supportive, sensory-considerate environment. Stan’s participation reminds us how vital that experience can be—for everyone, at any age.
We’re deeply grateful to T.F. Green Airport, Breeze Airways, and the many volunteers who make these events possible. Together, we’re helping create a more inclusive and welcoming travel experience—not just for autistic children, but for autistic adults, too.
Because when it comes to autism, there’s no age limit on understanding—or joy.
